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Most expats moving to the United Kingdom have a pretty easy time adjusting to the culture. Larger cities such as London and Manchester are incredibly diverse and have a multitude of cultures. Every type of cuisine, obscure grocery item and cultural accessory are readily available.
If you're moving outside cosmopolitan locations, you'll experience more of traditional middle-class Britain, with a fairly standard set of values and traditions familiar to anyone from a Western background. English, of course, is spoken widely, although strong regional accents may sometimes convince you otherwise.
Traditionally, the British are polite, reserved and circumspect – although there is a diversity of classes and cultures, and few stereotypes hold up particularly well in personal experience. It's better to think of the UK as a whole world, and adopt an accordingly open mindset.
Regional identities in the United Kingdom
While there aren't significant differences in everyday modes of social behaviour from one part of the UK to another, some aspects of culture are quite symbolic of national or local differences. Factors such as support for the monarchy, political affiliation and the fiercely tribal support of football teams are some of the most obvious expressions of contemporary localism. Religious adherence and ethnic differentiation are also significant.
Although most expats move to England's capital, London, it's important to be aware of such distinctions throughout the UK and the strong sense of identity and nationalism felt by the populations of each country. To understand the importance of this, some geographical, political and historical background is needed.
From a geographical standpoint, the British Isles consist of Great Britain (the countries of England, Wales and Scotland) and the island of Ireland (with the countries of the Republic of Ireland and Northern Ireland). The United Kingdom is a political entity consisting of England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland. Notably, the Republic of Ireland is an independent country, meaning it is not part of the UK even though it is located in the British Isles.
Although Northern Ireland and the Republic of Ireland share a landmass, they have a tumultuous history, and it's crucial that expats recognise and respect this. The two countries are sharply divided by different politics, cultures and religions – so you might cause offence if you get them confused or imply they're the same.
Those from England, Wales and Scotland can usually safely be referred to as 'British', although many prefer the specific demonyms of 'English', 'Welsh' and 'Scottish'.
Those from Northern Ireland might identify as 'Northern Irish', 'British' or sometimes just 'Irish'. Each label implies a particular political stance and affiliation, so preferences vary widely, and it's best not to make assumptions.
Nationals of the Republic of Ireland are called 'Irish'. You should avoid terms such as 'British' or 'southern Irish', as some see these terms as diminishing the national identity and independence of the Republic from the United Kingdom.
Communication in the United Kingdom
Historically, the British have been known for their stiff upper lip and the 'Blitz spirit' demonstrated during World War II. This grin-and-bear-it attitude in the face of hardship and adversity is still sometimes apparent today.
You may also find that people in the UK seem more distant and reserved than those from North America and parts of Europe. They like their personal space and prefer to maintain a little distance between themselves and the person they are speaking to.
The British value their privacy, and you shouldn't expect a tour of the home when visiting a British friend. They expect others to respect their privacy, which extends to personal questions, particularly those regarding someone's financial situation or relationships. You should take care if asking a British person where they are from, as this can potentially be considered an attempt to place the person on the social or class scale.
Cultural etiquette in the United Kingdom
The UK is a multicultural society comprising various ethnic communities, each with its own standards of social behaviour and cultural etiquette. However, there are some points you might find helpful when interacting with the British.
When meeting someone for the first time, it is best to offer a handshake. Hugs are only appropriate for people you are more familiar with.
When visiting the home of a British friend or colleague, you can give the host a gift of chocolates, wine or flowers.
The British appreciate punctuality, not just in business but also at social occasions. Make every attempt to arrive on time for any type of appointment. If you're running late for a meeting, call ahead to let someone know, as tardiness may be seen as a lack of respect.
LGBTQ+ in the United Kingdom
The United Kingdom stands as a beacon of progressiveness in advocating for LGBTQ+ rights. With comprehensive legal protections against discrimination, the UK offers a supportive environment for LGBTQ+ people. Cities such as London, Manchester and Brighton are renowned for their vibrant LGBTQ+ communities and social scenes.
The legal landscape in the UK ensures that same-sex couples have the right to marry and adopt children. Anti-discrimination laws are robust, covering aspects of life from employment to housing. The annual Pride celebrations across various cities not only underscore the acceptance but also celebrate the diversity within the LGBTQ+ community.
For more information, see our comprehensive guide to Diversity and Inclusion in the UK.
Women in the United Kingdom
Women's rights and gender equality are pivotal aspects of British societal values. The UK has a long history of championing women's rights, from the suffragette movement securing voting rights to current policies promoting gender equality in the workplace.
Despite the advancements, challenges remain in achieving complete gender parity, particularly in leadership roles within business sectors. The gender pay gap persists, although it is steadily being addressed through various governmental and private sector initiatives aimed at fostering an equitable work environment.
For more information, see our comprehensive guide to Diversity and Inclusion in the UK.
How do expats acclimatise to life in the UK?
"Initially getting settled proved to be quite a challenge. I didn’t have a job or a place to live lined up when I arrived. I had booked Airbnbs for my first two weeks and then planned to sort everything out after I arrived. However, I was often chasing things around in circles as I couldn’t get a lease without a bank account, no bank account without a job and no job without a lease. I ended up renting a cheap room in a house share for my first couple months until I was able to sort out a bank account and a job and then move to a better area."
For more insights from Allison, a Canadian living in Manchester, read her interview with Expat Arrivals.
Further reading
►To learn about British business etiquette, read our advice on Doing Business in the United Kingdom
►What are the healthcare benefits available for expats living in the UK? Our Healthcare in the United Kingdom page offers guidance and tips.
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