At what age must girls wear an abaya?

well , under age girls it's ok not to wear abaya

What do you mean by "under age"? Thanks

Hi Monica / Anonymous

There's no hard and fast rule about the age a girl must wear an abaya. Traditionally, girls must start wearing the abaya before they hit puberty. You will see some girls as young as seven wearing one in more traditional, old-world areas, but often that's partly just because that's what all the women in their family wear and they want to look like their older sisters or whatever. Also there are some cute little girl abayas that they might want to wear because they're pretty.

People will be a bit more tolerant of expats, and it really depends on you and how much you want your child to fit in and not be stared at.

Take a look at Women in Saudi Arabia for more info.

hey I am 14 and dont know if I should wear a burqa. My mom says once  you wear the burqa you will wear it till you die. So I
 say 16 or 17 is better.

Take care.Bye

I am 12 years old and I'm tall , should I wear abaya?

Hello, I´m already living in Saudi Arabia, and the rule is when a girl has hit her puberty, but is just a reference. My recomendation is that since the girl looks like a woman, she´d use the abaya, in order to avoid any problems with the Mutawa police. She´ll feel confortable with it. My daughter is 14, but she is very tall, and she is wearing the abaya

Allah Most High says: “And abstain from all sins, internal or external.” (Surah al-An’am, 120) Regarding dressing, Allah Almighty says: “O children of Adam! Surely we have bestowed upon you a garment to cover your shame, as well as to be an adornment to you, and the garment of piety is the best.” (al-A’raf, 26) In view of the above-mentioned verse of the Holy Qur’an, other verses and sayings of our beloved Prophet (Allah bless him & give him peace), the Jurists (fuqaha) have deduced certain rules and principles with regards to the dress of males and females. The following are the principles of dressing for females: 1) The whole body of the woman must be concealed. Only the hands and feet (and according to some scholars, the face, when there is no fear of Fitna) can be exposed. Allah Most High says in Surah al-Ahzab: “And stay in your houses and do not display yourselves as in the days of Jahiliyyah (Ignorance).” (V: 33) Allah Almighty further says in the same Surah: “O Prophet! Say to your wives and daughters and the women of the believers, that they should cast upon themselves the outer garment (Jilbab). That will be more convenient for them not to be known (as such) and not be molested. And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.” (Surah al-Ahzab, 59) In a Hadith recorded by Imam Tirmidhi (Allah have Mercy on him) with a authentic chain of narrators, the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “A woman is supposed to be concealed. When she emerges outside (without covering herself properly), Shaytan makes her adorned in front of men.” (Sunan Tirmidhi) It is clear from the above that a female must cover herself fully before coming in front of non-Mahram men. Even the hands and feet should be concealed, if possible. 2) The garment of the female must not be so thin that her body can be visible. 3) Her cloths must not be close-fitting and tight; rather they must be loose, as to avoid the figure and shape of the body being exposed and visible. Sayyiduna Abu Hurayra (Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “There are two types of the people of Hell whom I have not seen: People with whips like the tails of cattle, with which they beat the people, and women who are clothed YET NAKED, inciting men and their heads looking like the humps of camels, leaning to one side. They will not enter paradise and even smell it’s fragrance, even though it’s fragrance can be detected from such and such a distance.” (Sahih Muslim, no. 2218) The above Hadith is clear in that the clothing of a female must not be transparent and/or tight-fitting. The meaning of “clothed yet naked” is nothing other than that. 4) There should be no imitation of the Kuffar (non-believers). In a Hadith recorded by Imam Abu Dawud (Allah have Mercy on him) and others, the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Whosoever imitates a nation is amongst them.” (Sunan Abu Dawud, no. 4031) It should be remembered here that not everything what the non-Muslims wear and do, is Haram and unlawful. Imitation, which is prohibited, is effected in two ways: a) One wears a particular type of clothing with the intention of imitating the Kuffar, meaning, one wears something because one wants to be like a particular non-believer or non-believers. b) Wearing any clothing which is unique and exclusive to the non-believers and/or part of their religion, will be considered imitation, thus unlawful. (See the Fatwa of Shaykh Mufti Taqi Usmani in Taqrir Tirmidhi) It becomes evident from the above that if a woman wears certain Western cloths for the sole reason of pleasing her husband, and no other men (Mahram or non-Mahram) see her, and she observes the full rules of Hijab when emerging outside, and the intention is not to imitate the Kuffar, then this would be permissible. 5) Any clothing which creates pride and arrogance in the heart must be avoided. In a Hadith recorded by Imam Ibn Majah (Allah have Mercy on him), the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Whosoever dresses himself out of pride in this world, Allah will dress him/her with the same clothing on the day of Qiyamah and he/she will be entered in to Hell.” (Sunan Ibn Majah) 6) Imitation of the opposite sex is also impermissible. Sayyiduna Abd Allah ibn Abbas (Allah be pleased with him) relates, that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) “Cursed those men who imitate women and those women who imitate men.” (Sahih al-Bukhari, 7/205) 7) One should avoid being extravagant and spending lavishly on cloths. The meaning of being extravagant is to spend out on cloths to the amount which is beyond one’s normal capacity. Allah Most High says: “And do not be extravagant, for Allah loves not the extravagant.” (Surah al-An’am, V: 141) 8) The cloths should be clean, pure and free from anything filthy and dirty, as purity is part of ones Faith (Iman). The above are the Islamic principles with regards to the dressing of females. Some of these rules may also apply to males. It is evident that this subject is lengthy and needs much more elaboration than this small article. However, one may able to get the gist of what the Islamic guidelines are. May Allah guide you and all to the path that Allah loves And Allah knows best

its clear the writer remains anonymous, such outdated comments can only be from a man who is afraid of women.

AOA, I'm eleven and am going for umrah. Do I have to wear an abaya?

helpm me i dont wanna wear abbiya

If you are morer that 13 or so, you should wear an abaya. i don´t think this is an option

Lol.... the rule of islam is to cover everything when she hits puberty except face and hands... go learn ur religion and dnt fabricate wat the prophet and ulamaa2 sed and also dnt interpret the hadith wat u want it to b rather than wat it is

Im moving from canada to saudi arabia for my dads job do i have to wear the black dress things that cover almost your whole body