Can my ex cancel my South African life partner permit?

Hi Leigh,

I am really sorry to hear about your situation.

The terms of your life partner permit are that you reside with the person listed on that permit. If the relationship does end you are supposed to inform the Department of Home Affairs and try to move onto another type of visa. So yes, your partner can cancel your visa. But I'm not sure exactly what the consequences are - in terms of how long you have before you'd be expected to leave the country so perhaps its best to ask a professional. 

As you do have a child together and you've been residing in South Africa for 12 years, this does make your situation slightly more complicated. Is your child a South African citizen? That may be good enough motivation for Home Affairs to grant you PR but I can't be sure so I would suggest contacting a reputable immigration lawyer for the best advice. They probably have more experience of such cases and can present the merits of your case in the best possible way. Many of the consultants/lawyers around will offer you a free initial consultation. 

Good luck

Shantalie